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As she went away, I decided that we were going to have to change our plans slightly. We wouldn’t do anything they weren’t allowed to do as I’ve found it confuses children when one adult tells them not to do something and then another adult does exactly the opposite.


We gave them clear instructions, study first but in small doses. We divided their studies in small ‘blocks’. They study a certain number of pages and we would help them if necessary. The first child finished would then have to help the other, without arguing!


The first block didn’t go as we expected, they took longer than what we thought, and they couldn’t help each other without fighting.  I then realized why they reacted like that. It was only the beginning of what they thought a very long and boring weekend. They were frustrated as well as unmotivated. We told them that after the second block they would have to help us to do our activities. They looked even angrier, not only did they have to study their books but also had to help us. We didn’t tell them what our activities were and they were a little bit curious, especially my nephew. So, they finished the second block of Maths, and then we told them we needed their help to do our Wii activities (my sister didn’t mention the Wii). They were stunned.


We chose games where they had to keep a track of their score, and add their scores to the one from the previous game… without noticing they were playing and doing maths. They studied in blocks and as they changed subjects, we changed the type of game. We played hangman and Scategories after they study literacy, Pictionary after Science… By the end of the weekend they finished all the “homework” and they actually enjoyed themselves too.


When we took them to my sister’s on the Sunday night; she was surprised to see them so happy.


“Have they been good? Because if they haven’t, they’re not getting their videogames back!” she told me. Now, I was the one surprised; I thought that the main issue was for them to study (Notice the difference, behaving well or studying well to learn).


If you take away something they enjoy and tell them to sit quiet and don’t do any fun activity until they study, automatically “study” becomes an obligation, something big and horrible that prevents them from having fun. 


I asked her then if she could remember what it was like when she went to school, did she like it?


“Of course not, no one likes school, you go because you have to. I remember my days at school as being very boring, and pointless. I had to go there and sit for hours. In Primary School I learnt that if you are very quiet and behave well, automatically the teacher seems to think you are learning, and doesn’t hesitate to tell your parents you are a good student (instead of a good child who behaves but doesn’t learn). Then I got to Secondary School, with the proper exams and even more boring lessons that were based purely on the text books. Every now and then I tried to discuss some aspect of a subject with the teacher, and got a punishment for “answering back”. Then I would try to clear my doubts by asking to the person sitting next to me, I also got punished for “disruptive behavior”.  Eventually I gave up, spent most of the lessons drawing, sitting quietly at the back of the classroom and only had to study the night before the exam to pass and get a good report for being “a good student”.


By the time she finished, she realized she asked the wrong question and to the wrong person. She then turned to her children to check what they have learnt. They were hesitant to say they played while they learnt because they thought that was a bad thing.


It’s easier than we think to look around children, watch the way they play, the way they learn and use it when teaching them. Learning doesn’t have to be a long task that they have to do by themselves after extensive explanations. It can be something we do with them, in small tasks to keep them focused, using different activities including games to keep them motivated.


Children’s education is not something static that never changes. There is not a “magic spell” for the perfect student. What used to work with children 20 years ago doesn’t necessarily work now, and it is not because children nowadays don’t know how to behave or can’t learn anything. It’s because as everything else, children’s learning needs to change, therefore we also have to revise and update our teaching methodology.

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